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Use Sacrifice Beads & Suffering to Help Your Loved Ones
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Use Sacrifice Beads & Suffering to Help Your Loved Ones

After Brett passed away, it seemed to me that God was giving me signs that he was saved (for which I am so grateful). I asked a priest, whom I knew was faithful to the Magisterium of the Church, if I could count on this. His answer I have never forgotten. It has helped me in so many ways even though it was difficult to hear at first!

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My Lifelines - God's Amazing Grace
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

My Lifelines - God's Amazing Grace

"The Church is a field hospital for the wounded, not a haven for saints. Its doors opened two thousand years ago, and they are still open today. Inside these doors can be found true peace and joy, especially for those who are hopeless, hurting, or suffering" (Pope Francis).

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Spiritual Warfare: Living Water of Redemptive Suffering
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Spiritual Warfare: Living Water of Redemptive Suffering

The material from this post was written many years before my son's death in 2015 but the lessons learned and habits formed at that time in my life were so important in enabling me to stay connected to God during my darkest hour.

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Why Do We Have to Carry our Crosses?
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Why Do We Have to Carry our Crosses?

Isn't What Jesus Did Enough?

We know why Jesus died on the cross but why do we have to carry our crosses? Wasn't what Jesus did enough?

Of course what Jesus did was "enough." That is not the right question. Rather, it should be: "Exactly what was it enough for?"

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I Leave It in His Hands
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

I Leave It in His Hands

"The sun could have not risen that day and it would have been less surprising than what actually happened." Sammie Wood, a mother of three, homemaker, and cattle rancher from Clayton, New Mexico, spoke through tears as she recalled the events of Aug. 10, 2014.

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Burying Mom: Grief, Temptation, Grace
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Burying Mom: Grief, Temptation, Grace

Shocked, cheeks wet with tears, thoroughly pierced with grief, I drove in the late night to my parent’s home. I tried to imagine that my younger brother’s words spoken on the phone, “Mom is gone”, did not necessarily mean that she had died.

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Combating Hedonism by Living the Message of Fatima
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Combating Hedonism by Living the Message of Fatima

Our Lady came to Fatima to begin the formation of her “A Team” – a team of new “missionary disciples” who would be bright lights in a time of darkness, and by living an authentically Catholic life, would mission to people who had received a perverted form of the Catholic Faith through Modernism; disciples who would allow Jesus' victory over the Strongman to be fully effective in their lives. She knew it wouldn’t be easy for them because Hedonism – a direct consequence of Modernism – has infected everyone. The antidote is to respond to her urgent call to prayer, penance and reparation.

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A Process of Offering Up Suffering
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

A Process of Offering Up Suffering

1. Enter into the Lord’s presence and ask for His insight and grace as you seek to understand and lean into your suffering for the sake of your own salvation and that of those whom God has placed in your care.

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My Mother Was a Priest
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

My Mother Was a Priest

We were all shocked and shattered when my brother announced that he wanted to become a priest. It was not just that he wanted to become a priest, but he wanted to become a Cistercian priest. That meant that once he left home he would never return. Naturally my mother was totally bereft.

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Grief Attacks
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Grief Attacks

My Son's Funeral

10 months & 19 days since you passed into eternal life on October 15, 2015.

I have learned that it is God's desire to gather together all of the suffering from grieving hearts and use it as a force for good. Here is a way that God has taught me to allow Him to use these "Grief Attacks" for a higher purpose and to make our loved one who has passed away happy that something good can come from our suffering.

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The Gift of Tears?
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

The Gift of Tears?

We are created by God with the ability and urge to cry when our emotions move us, so shedding tears must be an important part of being a human being.

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Taking Up Our Cross
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Taking Up Our Cross

Luke 9:23-25 ‘If anyone wants to be a follower of mine, let him renounce himself and take up his cross every day and follow me. For anyone who wants to save his life will lose it; but anyone who loses his life for my sake, that man will save it. What gain, then, is it for a man to have won the whole world and to have lost or ruined his very self?

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Pope Saint John Paul II and the Cross
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Pope Saint John Paul II and the Cross

After concelebrating Mass with the Holy Father in his private chapel, a priest from Michigan had a brief opportunity to meet the Pope. The priest had a broken leg and stood on crutches as John Paul approached him in the receiving line of guests. He said to the Pope with a twinge of humor and self-pity, “I broke my leg. Can I please have your blessing?” John Paul replied, “Don’t waste your suffering.” The Holy Father raised his hand, blessed the priest, and then with an open palm, thumped the priest on the head (From St John Paul the Great: His Five Loves – by Jason Evert).

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What Does It Mean to "Offer It Up?"
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

What Does It Mean to "Offer It Up?"

Teresa of Avila, in her book The Way of Perfection writes:

"Everything I have advised you about… is directed toward the complete gift of ourselves to the Creator, the surrender of our wills to His, and detachment from creatures…For we are preparing ourselves that we may quickly reach the end of our journey and drink the living water from the fount."

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The Prophetic Messages of Our Lady of Akita
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

The Prophetic Messages of Our Lady of Akita

Our meditation today arises from the approved apparition of Our Lady of Akita, Japan from June 12, 1973 until Sept. 15, 1981. It began with 101 instances of a statue of Mary bleeding and weeping. Sr Agnes Sasagawa then received visions of an angel and messages from Mary, the Mother of God and Our Mother.

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Why Do We Suffer?
Terri Thomas Terri Thomas

Why Do We Suffer?

Suffering is hard. It is easy to say you want God's will.... til you take up that cross.

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